"SHE" got married.

Sherlyn & Dexter's 1st Dance as husband and wife. 

There's something to be said for the every day sort of friend, the one you see so often, the one you do everything with, can't go a week without talking to.

But more and more I realize how much there is to love about the other kind of friend, the one you see only every so often--once a year, maybe, or once every few.

Sherlyn was one of my first few college friends. Bubbly and nice, hysterically laughs, undeniably charming, carefree, talented, smart, noisy, and fun. (Laban, laban o bawi bawi) School is fun because she and her crazy friends are there.

Happy and blessed. 

She finally got married last March 16. I know she's been waiting for this moment and I am just so glad that Dexter kept his promise.

Photo: Sherlyn's Facebook

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She looks stunning in her wedding gown. Her eyes are twinkling with love. I know she's happy and thankful.

It was a magical moment for her, and it was an honor to be a part of such a joyous occasion.

I've also met a few more friends with whom I shared my life in college.

College Buddies.

Despite the fact that I haven't seen them in ages, our love and friendship remains the same. Our laughter is as genuine as we remember.

Oh, and I finally met this lovely lady at the wedding. She is the bride's eldest sister. Isn't she lovely?

Fireworks capped the night. It was a very successful event. Nice weather. Good food. Pretty faces. Warm hearts.

My take away: Friendship is such a blessing from God .

Ash ❤❤

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Midnight Musing: I am not giving up

Some days you just want to tweet nonsense, and it's strangely comforting how typing to yourself works. I know it sounds crazy, but it's actually quite helpful.

There are some days in your life when you feel empty - some days are more lonely than others. Tonight is probably one of the most lonely nights of my life - lying alone, contemplating my future.

I've been dealing with an emotional crisis for a few months now. I'm trying really hard not to give up. Despite the pain, frustration, and loneliness, I am clinging to my weapon - faith. I know God is always with me. And He is the reason I am still holding on.

**I want to inspire people but in times like this, please understand that this is also my outlet.

Ash B. ❤❤❤

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Quiet Time.

(Read: Proverbs 4:23 / Psalms 139:23-24)

God’s desire is for me to know where my weaknesses are.

My prayer tonight:

Dear God, please help me to guard my heart and guide me with wisdom. Give me the courage to keep going. Let my setbacks spur greater triumphs. Transform my stumbling blocks into stepping stones.

Please uproot anything in me that does not reflect You. Continue to shape me, even if it is painful at times. I don't want anything toxic in my life to be associated with me, including things, old habits, relationships, and etc. Continue to draw me closer to You when I begin to drift away. I may become distracted from time to time, but I know where to seek refuge and peace. Continue to lead and protect me as I pursue You. In Jesus' name. Amen.

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Ash B. ❤❤❤

Pause. Wait. Trust.

I pray for a heart that is settled knowing God is good and is for me, even though I can’t see the bigger picture.

Everything, literally, is part of His plan. All of my mistakes, blunders, and selfish plans are being used to write the most beautiful story ever, and I'm so grateful He's the one doing it.

I'm grateful that God hasn't abandoned me, because I've neglected Him numerous times. He rescued me and continues to amaze me with things that go above and beyond what I deserve.

God, I know I'm not alone when I'm in the valleys and when I'm on the mountain tops.  You take away my fears & replace them with peace. May I continue to trust You wholeheartedly. I may not understand every plan or step You have me take, but I know each one has a purpose. I'm confident that I'm on the right track. I pray that You continue to direct my steps, guard my heart, and direct my thoughts. Allow me to walk boldly, courageously, and fearlessly. Amen

Ash B. ❤❤❤

                                                         

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Friendship.

Do your friends help you in overcoming your problems, or do they exacerbate them? Take into account the people in your corner. Some friendships bring us joy, while others teach us a valuable lesson.

If they’re not trying to grow with you, they’ve got to go.  Surround yourself with people who love and lift others up. A flower will not thrive if it is surrounded by weeds. Remove those who poison your optimism and create an environment conducive to growth for yourself. 

Don't let careless people stiffen your tender heart. I understand how it feels to have people mistake your goodness for weakness, but the world needs more people like you. You're going to make a difference and help heal the broken-hearted. You must believe it for yourself.

Ash B. ❤❤❤

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